A new look at a traditional family relationship

The first American Father's Day celebration was held on July 5, 1908, in Fairmont, West Virginia, only about 20 miles from the location of the first Mother’s Day celebration in Grafton. The event was the emotionally charged response to a mine explosion that had occurred one year earlier, killing more than 300 men, most of whom were fathers. Hundreds of grieving widows were left behind, along with more than 1,000 fatherless children.

Mrs. Grace Clayton, a woman who had lost two children and understood family loss well, was moved to establish an annual holiday to honor and remember all fathers for their great contributions to their families. But while this Father’s Day observance is mentioned in at least one historical document, it has all but been forgotten, and it is a separate event that occurred one year later that is most often referred to as the “beginning of Father’s Day.”

At a Mother’s Day celebration almost a year later, a young woman named Sonora Louise Smart was thinking about the sacrifices her father had made while shouldering the responsibility for his six children after his wife had died eleven years earlier. She wondered why there was no day set aside to honor fathers, and made it her mission to see one established. Her efforts were joined with those of many others across America, and while a declaration by President Calvin Coolidge made the day a popular tradition by 1924, it was not until 1972 that the day was finally signed into law by President Richard Nixon.

Interestingly, this formal recognition came just as fathers’ contributions to the family were beginning to be acknowledged in more important legal ways as well. In 1972, the Supreme Court acknowledged that fathers, like mothers, should be entitled to a hearing before state intervention that might result in removal of his children. The Court also ruled it unconstitutional to begin proceedings to terminate the parental rights of fathers without proper notification.

Now, almost a decade into a new millennium, society is still struggling to find the right place for fathers, but researchers who study this question are uncovering encouraging news that may give families more reason than ever to celebrate Father’s Day. Read more about the importance of fathers in Vision's special report: A Tribute to Fathers.

Posted with permission from Family Matters

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