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How do you keep a young active mind stimulated?
Submitted by scott on Mon, 07/01/2008 - 6:00pm.
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Whist numbers and colours where initially great this little lady is growing very fast and learns lots of different things all the time. Her mind is a sponge and we are the water.

So I asked a friend who is an Early Childcare Educator as I was thinking maybe I should be doing something more – I read the articles from SPARC on our website also, but like I said felt that there could be more done. She gave me an interesting photocopied read from R Hargreaves (2000) called “Growing Up” , I have copied a few of the things that I think fathers might want to gauge where there child is at but remember every child is different.

- Scott

By 3 Months

Social Skills

* Smiles in response to other

* Holds eye contact with other

* Recognises parents voices

Understanding

* Stops crying when picked up, or attended to

* Seeks out where sound is coming from turns towards voice

* Stops crying when picked up or attended to

Communication

* Makes cooing sounds to person when spoken

* Gurgles, coos, grunts and hums to express feelings

Play

* Attends to brightly coloured moving objects

* Follows movements

* Watches own hands closely and begins to touch own clothes and hair

Motor Skills

* Kicks vigorously

* Brings hands together in the middle

* Reaches and bats hanging objects

By 6 Months

Social Skills

* Happy to be held by unknown adults

* Raises hands to be picked up when adult arms extended

* Recognises familiar faces

Understanding

* Turns head to look for sound

* Interprets the difference between pleasure and anger by smiling and crying

* Smiles on sight of face

* Responds to own name

* Shows displeasure when objects are removed

Play

* Explores objects with mouth

* Explores own hands

* Fascinated by own image in the mirror

* Reaches for toys out of reach

* Bangs and shakes objects

Motor Skills

* Head control secure

* Attempts to crawl

* Take weight on legs with held in standing position

* Visual skills at adult level

By 9 Months

Social Skills

* Differentiates between familiar persons and unfamiliar

* Becomes shy of unfamiliar

Understanding

* Understands NO

* Understands simple gestures e.g. waving

* Gives objects on request

Communication

* Cries when parents leave the room

* Gains attention by shouting

* Indicates NO

Play

* Reaches and grasps for objects

* Becomes aware of consequences and so will repeat actions

* Plays peek a boo type games

Motor Skills

* Plays with feet

* Places objects where wants it to be

By 12 Months

Social Skills

* Expresses verbally and non verbally

* Listens understands and follows simple requests

* Recognises familiar faces

Understanding

* Responds immediately to own name

* Points to objects when asked

* Finds another object of the same

* Understands cause and effect

Play

* Enjoys simple songs

* Still mouths objects

* Begins to scribble

* Shows enjoyment of music

* Still mouths objects

Motor Skills

* Stands on own

* Continues to crawl

* Walks with hands held

* Holds small objects

* Bangs objects together

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