Let's talk about  
dads and parenting  
 
Father's guide to parenting
diyfather.com
Home  •  About Us  •  Contact Us  •  Authors  •  Post Article   
   
Letting your child starve to death - Lea-Sophie's story
Submitted by stefan on Thu, 06/12/2007 - 4:50pm.
Tagged:  •  

I just found out about a shocking incident that happened in Germany a few weeks back where a 5 year old girl "Lea-Sophie" was found starved to death. The piece of information that nearly made me sick was that she only weighed 7Kgs (15 pounds) when she was found - that's actually less than my 6-month old son weighs.

Here's the excert from a story that ran in the international press:

"The parents of Lea-Sophie were arrested this week on charges of neglect after allegedly failing to adequately feed their daughter for months on end. She died on Tuesday, Nov. 20, after being admitted to a hospital in Schwerin, weighing just over seven kilos (15 pounds) -- three times less than an average child her age.

The authorities in Schwerin have come in for criticism. Hermann Junghans, head of Schwerin Social Services, insists that welfare officers did their job properly but has admitted that the two social workers who visited the family a fortnight ago after an anonymous tip-off had 'found nothing amiss.' "

After hearing the story I really struggled with the sheer sadness of what the starvation must have meant for the girl in the months leading up to her death. I can't even contemplate the mental state of her parents who let it come to that. It is simply incomprehensible for me.

Judging by the media reaction there was a big outcry in Germany of "how could this have happened" and there was a lot of finger pointing going on. As I was thinking about it I wondered what authorities CAN and CAN'T do in these cases? Where is the right balance between a big brother state that also monitors the privacy of families and a "hands off" administration that never interferes?

Could this happen in our country ... in our city? Probably. Is there an easy way to prevent? Unlikely. So what else can be done? Some politicians in Germany have called for a mandatory health check for children up to a certain age. I'm not sure how realistic it is to introduce and enforce this but it certainly seems that somehow there is a gap in medical attention between the ages of 2 (when most of the immunisation has been done) and the age children go to school.

Surely a mandatory quarterly health check between ages 2 and 6 would also help with other issues. Well - it's an idea.

-Stef

Technorati Tags:
 

stefan's blog  •  Email this page
 

This such a sad article.The

This such a sad article.The way kids are treated is amazing!

Post new comment

The content of this field is kept private and will not be shown publicly.
CAPTCHA
This question is for testing whether you are a human visitor and to prevent automated spam submissions.
 

Shortcuts

Plunket Appeal 2008
2008 Father's Day Page
Dads 4 Dads Course
Activities with kids (SPARC)
Strategies with kids (SKIP)
Global father groups directory
Cool sites
Post your question


Seven Steps to Baby BlissWin a copy of "Seven Steps to Baby Bliss" - a great DVD for new mums and dads!

Simply take part in the "First Time Dads" survey and be in to win one of three DVDs.
Click here to take part in the survey and win a DVD ...


Post a story / write for DIYFather

Got something to say about dads and parenting? Send us your story and we will review it for publication.

Submit your story here ...


Ask DIYFather
Gifts for dads
 

Blog Categories

Ideas for our site

Is there something you'd like to see on our site that we don't have. Tell us about it!

Send us a message ...


Stay-home-dad meetings

Are you organising, running or attending any stay-home-dad meetings in your area? We'd like to start a directory of groups per city. Let us know and we will list your group here.

Contact us with group details ...






Top Blogs

Blog Search, Blog Directory
blogarama - the blog directory

Relationship Blogs - BlogCatalog Blog Directory


Blog Review

Blog Directory

Blog Directory

Blog Directory

Blogs Directory

   
Home  •  About Us  •  Disclaimer  •  Contact Us

DIYFather.com is a registered Trademark,  ©2008 -- user protected contents, all rights reserved.