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Submitted by community on Tue, 20/05/2008 - 11:18pm.
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In my youth, which means before I had kids, I had trouble getting up in the morning. I had to be very careful to set my alarm, or else I would sleep through whatever it was I had to do. Ahhh, youth.

I haven’t set an alarm clock in four and a half years. Surprise surprise, that’s exactly Thing 1’s age.

It is impossible for me to oversleep for anything now. Most days, Thing 3 is my alarm clock. We can’t set the exact time he goes off, but he is sure to be standing in his crib and doing his cock-a-doodle-do (aka crying) sometime between 5-6:15am.

Just in case Thing 3’s wakeup call doesn’t work (not likely), I have backup Plan B - otherwise known as Thing 2. As soon as he wakes up Thing 2 will come into our room and climb into our bed.

So, what happens on those rare occasions, like when I travel for work, when there are no Things to wake me up? Do I go back to my oversleeping youth? Not to worry. ... read more >>

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Submitted by community on Tue, 13/05/2008 - 10:36pm.
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Parenthood has its trials as well as its joys and, perhaps because it’s February, during the coldest and snowiest winter in a generation, I’ll briefly touch upon the former. After our Maggie got through her latest bout of teething, we enjoyed a settled patch when she would go to bed along with the twins and permit us to sleep through the night. Amy’s schedule of evening meetings slackened over Christmas, so we were on a bit of a streak.

No more. Maggie’s throwing in the spanner by getting up around 2 a.m. and insisting on sleeping in our bed. I could give her a bottle and plunk her back in the crib but she’d yell the house down and Amy has work, the twins have to get up for preschool … ... read more >>

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Submitted by eric on Wed, 07/05/2008 - 8:03pm.
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Thanks to Ava's generous Grandfather, we were given a very cool Infant Monitor to monitor our new baby Ava while she sleeps.

Just like any other Infant Monitor we can listen to every sound little Ava makes, sound also displays as flashing lights on the parent monitor. The Parent Monitor is also mobile and has a clip so that it can be attached during the daily routine of hanging out washing or just being about the house.

What sets this monitor apart from others we have seen available in New Zealand of the shelf, is the colour video monitor, and it works at night too using basic night vision technology (no need to keep a light on). And it can be plugged into the TV via the AV Cable how cool is that??? All I need to do is change channel and there is Ava asleep (or not asleep).

Visit www.summerinfant.com for more information. ... read more >>

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Submitted by eric on Mon, 14/04/2008 - 10:43pm.
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With Ava’s first night at home, we had her bassinet setup, nice new sheets and blankets, and right by the bed… Andrea and I had envisioned that Ava would happily sleep in the bassinet next to her parent’s bed peacefully… Ava had other idea’s, and who could blame her?!?! She has just spent the last 40 weeks inside her mother, why would she then want to spend anytime away from her mother.Andrea knew from the nights in hospital that Ava liked to sleep next to her, so this is what’s so at the moment… I’m not thinking it spells trouble just yet; she is just too little to be manipulative.

I’m afraid I’m no good, I can sleep through a Rock Concert, and do not hear when Andrea gets up, during the night and morning to sooth a screaming Ava. I would be willing too, I just need to be poked awake.

I hope we get some use out the bassinet…

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Submitted by stefan on Tue, 01/04/2008 - 9:50am.
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A few months ago when we were trying to figure out how to get our little man to self settle at night we came across the Philips Magic Theatre. Basically it's a projector that beams rotating images onto a wall - it also plays some sounds / music. We've been using it for a wee while so I thought I'd post a quick review on it.

Let's start with the positives first - the device is easy to install and set-up, it is very safe (from what I can tell) and has been designed to be used in a nursery. There is quite a lot of information about product safety on the Philips website (great). ... read more >>

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Submitted by community on Tue, 18/03/2008 - 9:35pm.
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Miss O stayed home today with her Caesarlandococci virus, and it looks like she's gonna be home again tomorrow. It's one of those weird-ass viruses where she's fine for like five hours, then her fever jumps up to 100 and she rolls into a ball on the couch until I can mainline some Children's Motrin into her.

She was doing great at bedtime, tonight, and I thought she'd be going to school for sure tomorrow. Then, about five minutes ago, after she'd been asleep for a coupla hours, she woke up and called for me:

MISS O: (whispering loudly but not screaming) Dad! The ants! The ants!

ME: Whuh? What ants?

MISS O: The ants are crawling all over the house!

[at this point I took her temp with the ear thermometer and it read 100.4]

ME: Miss O, you're dreaming. I'm gonna go get some Motrin. And there are no ants in the house.

MISS O: There are... I just saw one! ... read more >>

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Submitted by stefan on Mon, 11/02/2008 - 9:55am.
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In our little breastfeeding community we recently realized that somehow we ended up with the short straw when it comes to our babies sleeping through the night. Our bottle feeding friends seem to have very few sleepless nights or even any disruptions at night. How unfair to follow nature's way and then get nocturnal stress as a pay back.

Perhaps it's a developmental stage thing – most of our babies in the group are now between 7 and 10 months old. Even the ones who used to sleep through the night have started waking up frequently. It's the age of pain and gain for babies. On the one hand they have to put up with a lot of pains (teething, digestion, bruises) and on the other hand there are exciting new ways to explore their environment now (crawling, walking, rolling). Maybe that's why they just can't sleep at night – or not as long as they used to. On top of that there is the attachment to the breast and closeness to mum for comfort and nourishment. So what to do to get a peaceful night? ... read more >>

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Submitted by eric on Wed, 06/02/2008 - 9:01pm.
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I have just watched a must see for all expecting and new fathers.

“Seven Steps to Baby Bliss” from www.dadstheword.com is not only very practical for expectant and new fathers it is also pretty funny too.

I felt it was totally aimed at fathers as the target audience, but I also believe it would have great benefit watching this DVD with your partner.

The role of the dad is highlighted says the back cover, and I completely agree.

In 28 minutes the “Seven Steps to Baby Bliss” DVD shows you how to:
* Settle a crying baby
* Bathing a baby
* Step by step guide and tips on nappy changing for both baby girls and baby boys
* Feeding a baby
* Baby massage
* Dressing your baby
* And SIDS prevention
* Relationship after baby

from www.dadstheword.com ... read more >>

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Submitted by stefan on Fri, 25/01/2008 - 2:26pm.
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It's time for "back to black" I thought when I realised that our little man wakes up and stays up whenever it gets light in his room (which at the moment is around 6am). We've got one of those roof windows / skylights with a roller blind in front of it which doesn't really block out daylight. So even with the blind down it's very bright in his room in the mornings.

Time for a little DIY action I thought - I had a look round for suitable solutions and in the end decided that a bit of spare cardboard would do the trick. With card board you've basically got 2 options - it's either thick enough so it can be wedged in the window frame (if you cut it just slightly bigger than the inner frame) OR you can use double sided tape to stick it to the window. Either solution worked for me but this is definitely where "measure twice cut once" is a usefule rule! You don't want the gap between the cardboard and window too big ... never seizes to amaze me how much light can come through a tiny gap. On the other hand if it's too big you won't be able to wedge it in and it will fold somewhere. So a bit of precision is required. I found that using a good carpet cutter and a wooden slat (as a ruler) is best for precision cutting. ... read more >>

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Submitted by eric on Wed, 19/12/2007 - 8:30pm.
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Michael Grose is Australia's leading parenting educator. Michael shows you what it takes to be a great Dad. Visit Michael's website www.parentingideas.com.au for more parenting tips on bringing out the best in kids.


Great video really enjoyed listening to it, great for the new fathers out there. Michaels main tip is establish Sleep Patterns.

Thanks Michael

- Eric

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